Third Party

This year, I have seen 5 real cases of third party destroying happy relationship of couples. I have heard of more cases from my friend.

Most of the cases that I have seen is guy becoming third party. Well, why do you want to destroy or ruin other people relationship? Can’t you just find someone else who in single and available.

I have gathered some data from the U.S. Census Bureau. As of today (5th October 2008), the projected world population is 6,727,986,476. For Malaysia, the number of population is 25,274,000. Try to see the graph below. The number of male is slightly more than number of females for corresponding age group.

Does this explain that our country has more male, that they can come and ruin other couple relationship? That is absolutely rubbish! Does this mean that if you’re poor, you can just find another rich family and rob or ransack their home? Can I compare those third party with robber or pirates?

Some people may say ‘Love is blind’. I believe that ‘love is blind’ too. There is a case, where a group of friend advises their friend not to go after a girl, because the girl is just making use of the guys. However, all effort is useless, because the guy is ‘blind’.

There is no one is right or wrong in a relationship. Even if the third party come and manage to ruin the relationship, maybe that happen for a good reason. Maybe the relationship has all this while been an acrimonious relation.

My friend once told me that ‘man and women’ cannot become good friends. Do you agree with this statement? I think this is right, because if man and women is good friend, after they are committed to their own life, they can be good friend anymore.

Sometimes, a third party come for a good reason too. The raise the alarm in a relationship, causing couple to rethink of their relationship, to think of the right and wrong, that all this while has been ignored. I believe, if a couple managed to overcome the third party issue, their relationship will be much stronger.

Some of my friend even told me that the third party is much better than the previous person. Okay, maybe you can be with the third party, but what if in your relationship with the third party, comes another third party who is much better than your current relationship? This helps us to explain the statement ‘no one is perfect’. You should be grateful with your current relationship.

Before I end my post, let me use all the possible words to describe third party. They are blithering fucking idiot, airhead, arsehole, bugger, dickhead person, who little shithead thinking of destroying other people relationship.

One day, if I were too annoyed with all this third party, I may decide to put up their picture in my blog. Let the whole world see the picture of idiotic faces in my blog.

This is the first time both me and CH go to Penang. First time passing though Penang bridge too! We were so excited and once we reached the main island of Penang, we were greated by a nice Twin-Tower alike condominium. Now I understand why the prices of property is Penang is so expensive. They have limited empty land. We head straight to Kek Lok Si Temple at Air Itam. It was a very hot and hazy day.

We were a bit disappointed with the place. We have to pay for parking fees, ride on the inclined train, and even when entering the pagoda area. I am fine, because they can use the money to renovate and upgrade the whole place. However, once we entered a praying area, a man kind of forcing us to buy incense from him to pray. How can he force us?

The whole place is undergoing major renovation. See the picture below, they are adding huge pillars around the statue. I think they will be adding roof above the huge Kuan Yin Statue.

It is quite fun walking around Kek Lok Si temple, it is like a maze. I like the picture of this particular mini pagoda.

Next is picture of me and my dear, with the huge pagoda at the background. They are also having renovation to this huge pagoda, but luckily they still allow us to enter. We paid RM2 per person!! People belief that climbing the stairs to the top of the pagoda will give you long life. So, we climbed up and pray at each level.

We did not go to Bukit Bendera, because the place was closed (for renovation??). Sad..

Stay tune for my next post on New World Park food court in Penang.

The morning before we reached Penang, we dropped by at Ipoh to try the famous Dim Sum. Thanks for the direction from Fei Hing (and sorry for calling you early in the morning). We decided to try Ming Court Dim Sum. The place is crowded as early as 7AM. Ipoh people are really healthy, the town is alive early in the morning.

See the picture below. Well, my first impression was ’so small!’. Their Dim Sum size is really small. Yet, after putting it into my mouth, the food is godlike. The ‘loh mai kai’ is good, and the crispy stuff is nice too. Only 1 picture for Ipoh Dim Sum, because we were too busy eating. By the way, the black sesame soup is nice.

There are actually 2 famous Dim Sum shop there. First is Ming Court Dim Sum, and the other shop is Yoke Fook Moon Dim Sum. They are both just opposite each other. Fei Hing told me that Ming Court Dim Sum is more famous, but he personally prefer Yoke Fook Moon Dim Sum. The next time I go to Ipoh, I’ll try Yoke Fook Moon Dim Sum.

Thumbs up for Ipoh Dim Sum!!

Stay tune for next post in Penang:

• Kek Lok Si temple
• New World Park
• Penang foods
• Teluk Kumbar Restaurant
• Khoo Kongsi Clan